Getting To Know Each Other

Getting to know each other before the wedding is a huge ice-breaker and can help clarify expectations, wants and needs for both the couple and the photographer. 

However, for some people choosing a wedding photographer is like choosing a sandwich on the menu at a restaurant they have never been to. Even though this is their first time and they know nothing about the quality and taste of the food, they expect the food to meet their expectations. 

Sometimes they get lucky and your cheeseburger tastes just like they expected. However, other times the meaning of "medium-rare" means nothing to the line chef. The big difference is that they just don't order the cheeseburger anymore the next time they visit the restaurant or they just skip the restaurant altogether. Weddings don't have a do-over (at least most) 

Getting To Know Each Other, More Than a Check-Off On a List

It kind of makes me sad when I email a prospective client and ask if they would like to meet in person. Some, just never even thought about a meeting, some just can't fit in their schedule. Others, hire a wedding photographer because the bridal magazine tells them they need one. Hired wedding photographer, check. 

Your Personal Stalker

Taken wedding photos, is like stalking someone. I know this sounds weird but think about it for a moment...when was the last time you put on a dress and have someone take pictures of you half-naked? 

Probably, never. Now picture this happening with somebody you never met? Wouldn't it be much more relaxing to have someone so close to you whom you know and have a repertoire with? 

I am going to be with you pretty much the entire day. I can't tell you how many times I have found myself alone with the bride right before she walks down the aisle, holding her hand and telling her to relax.  

Your Wedding Photographer, Always Close By

During the ceremony, I am going to be somewhere close by, taking photos. I am going to be there when you say "I do." 

 While you and your beloved exchange rings and the kiss that seals the deal, I am in the center aisle on my knees taking photos. 

 I am usually also the first person who tells you "congratulations." Because I am right there center aisle walking backward taking photos. 

 While you get your moves on, on the dance floor, cutting the cake, and or playing games, I am your paparazzi for the day.  

All those moments are so much more comfortable if we have a relationship with one another. 

If There Is a Chance For a Meeting ...

I know we are all busy in this crazy world, and planning a wedding is most often very stressful, and I don't want to make it more so. And getting to know each before the wedding might prove to be impossible. So, if a bride tells me that they don't have the time and please send over the contract so she can check it off the list, I understand.

I will do my best on the day of the wedding to anticipate the needs and wants of the couple. After more than 8o weddings, I know what to expect and how most weddings unfold. 

However, if there is a chance for a meeting, let's take it. 

So Many Questions, So Little Time

We will have a chance to get to know each other. We can talk about the wedding, the family, the wedding colors, the venue, and whatever else comes to mind. What kind of photos are important? Do you want me to take photos of you getting your make-up done? Or would you rather do it in private?

Are you planning on a first-look? 

Not sure? 

Let me explain the pros and cons. Do we need to make time for the dad to have a first look? How many people will be in the bridal party? How important are family photos? How much time do we have to plan for family photos? Are we talking those photos before or after the ceremony? The list goes on and on. However, besides me being able to check my list of questions, we will have a chance to get to know each other. So when the time comes, I will not be a stranger walking into the bridal room. 

I can't wait to meet you!

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